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Topics discussed

• Useful resources
  • Transition into adulthood – The Down’s Syndrome Association has created a Transition into Adulthood guide, packed with useful information for young people moving into adulthood. While written for those who have Down’s syndrome, much of it will be helpful for anyone supporting a young person with a learning disability. Find out more. 
  • Finding support – Many parents tell us it’s hard to find counsellors who understand the challenges of SEND parenting. The Counselling Directory may help you connect with specialist counsellors who have this experience.
  • New Forest Disability Information Service 
  • Princess Royal Trust – Portsmouth
• July's meeting
  • Ongoing need for clear information and planning around future care, particularly in the event of a parent’s death
  • Parents are finding it difficult to locate knowledgeable specialist counsellors who understand SEND parenting. If you are looking for specialist counsellors, you may find the Counselling-Directory useful
  • Complexities when care is funded by a different local authority, including delays, missed opportunities, and additional family stress
  • Concerns around future funding structures and the impact of political changes on services
  • Ongoing difficulties in recruiting and retaining appropriately skilled and motivated support staff
  • Frustrations around professionalism and communication within social care services
  • Desire for clearer guidance on the transition from young person to adult services – including key contacts and next steps
  • Signposting to relevant counselling resources, including tips for finding the right professional support
• August's meeting
  • Carers’ assessments – experiences vary greatly by area
  • Capacity assessments – concerns that capacity is not always assessed correctly, with little explanation given
  • Lasting Power of Attorney & Appointees – some people had arrangements in place, others did not
  • Support levels – carers reported reduced support, e.g. EHCP applications being refused where they would previously have been approved, and fewer services sustained in adult support
  • Administrative burden – high levels of admin and energy needed to support someone over 18 claiming benefits. Proving identity and medical information is particularly difficult
  • DWP processes – seen as unhelpful and overly complicated. Concerns about incorrect payments leading to debt and unnecessary stress
  • Emotional impact – no support for carers dealing with the psychological strain of describing loved ones at their worst in benefit forms
  • Lack of voice – many carers feel invisible once their child turns 18, particularly when capacity is assessed but carers feel this does not reflect reality
  • Frustrations with services – organisations often fail to follow through on promises, and lack accessible contact methods such as phone numbers

  Resources discussed:

  • New Forest Disability Information Service 
  • Princess Royal Trust – Portsmouth